He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female . What if a Chinese person were to marry a Polynesian, or an African with very dark skin were to marry a Japanese person, or a person from India were to marry a person from America with very light skin—would these marriages be in accord with biblical principles?

For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother . But what about being joined with someone from another people group in the covenant relationship of marriage?

In all of this, God is working to redeem for Himself a people who are also one in Christ.

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A simple study of this passage, however, reveals no such message.

It’s clear from the context that God scattered the people at the Tower of Babel because of their disobedience and arrogance.

A yoke is used to harness two oxen together for a common purpose.

If the oxen are unequally yoked, the result is disastrous.

He is expounding on the attributes of the one true God—the characteristics that distinguish the true God from all of the false gods that the Greeks were following: As John Gill makes clear in his classic commentary, the context is that God is in charge of all things—where, how, and for how long any person, tribe, or nation will live, prosper, and perish. By the time you get to 6,000 years later, a person’s DNA is full of mistakes (called our “genetic load”).

To conclude that this passage forbids marriage between people groups is absurd. When Christians legalistically impose non-biblical ideas such as no “interracial” marriage, they are helping to perpetuate prejudices that have often arisen from evolutionary influences. Brothers, sisters, and cousins are more likely to have many of the mistakes.

In Christ, any separation between people is broken down.

As Christians, we are one in Christ and thus have a common purpose—to live for Him who made us. Sadly, there are some Christian homes where the parents are more concerned about their children not marrying someone from another supposed biological “race” than whether or not they are marrying a fellow believer (of the same spiritual “race”).

So, while the Bible says you can marry relatives as distant as you desire from any people group, you can’t marry relatives that are too close any more!

Earlier in this book, we saw from both science and the Bible that there really is no such thing as “race,” and, therefore, there is really no such thing as “interracial marriage.” But actually, there light and darkness.

(Besides, there has been so much mixing of people groups over the years that it would be impossible for many human beings today to trace their lineage back to know for certain from which group they are descended! I find a lot of Christians think you can’t marry your relative. The further mistakes in your genes and that your mate’s healthy genes will cover for your mutant ones!